Posts by Susan Sheppard
Teenagers are very smart!
Someone has the right idea! Find out what the kids know so you can focus on educating them about what they don’t know. This is a really great idea since sex under the bleachers in middle school has become the norm. We have to start somewhere to make a difference for future generations. The kids…
Read MoreWhat happens to marriages when one person disappears mentally?
Being in a relationship is a commitment and when one partner is not there, either physically by death or mentally by death, the relationship is ended. That does not mean that you abandon the affected partner, but if the surviving partner is not allowed to continue living, both will die. My mom was diagnosed with…
Read MoreWhat is a love relationship and why would you want to be in one?
There is so much to consider when you think about a relationship and where you want to go with it. Initially it’s the excitement, the pheromes, the suspense, the hormones that start raging and just the newness and how good you feel that someone actually wants you. Your mind starts running with it and thinking…
Read MoreWhat Do Women Want?
Loneliness is a side effect of a woman’s independence. The rise in self-esteem that a woman gets by being able to take care of herself and in many cases her children as well, does not compensate for the emptiness that arises when she does not have a man in her life. Women are not…
Read MoreIts never too late!
Any of you who think that its too late for love in your life, check out this article. I know you may say its for the money, but she is actually giving all her money away in order to marry him! Its very romantic. She rules over one of the world’s most breathtaking fortunes, but she…
Read MoreWHAT FROM YOUR PAST IS LIMITING YOU?
An interesting development surfaced this past week. I have been working with an EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) practitioner and focusing on an incident that occurred when I was about 9 years old. The most interesting part of the discovery was that it wasn’t at all what I believed to be true about the incident. When…
Read MoreHow does an affair start?
Men are pretty unconscious about what makes them attractive. According to most women it is not their looks that make them attractive, it is who they are and how they produce in the world. So this married man goes to work and comes home and goes back to work the next day. At work there…
Read MoreHow to be a really nice Bitch aka Appetite with Class
I guess I haven’t really explained how you get to be a really nice Bitch. So here it is. Women are called bitch when they demand and when they get angry. The secret to being a really nice bitch is to know what you want and ask for it very nicely while you absolutely expect…
Read MoreWhat’s up with Infidelity?
It seems to me that everyone looks at adultery as a cause of marital discord. From my perspective, there are only rare exceptions to the fact that adultery, cheating, or affairs are SYMPTOMS of long standing marital problems. The cause occurred possibly even before the marriage vows were uttered. Let’s go back to the beginning…
Read MoreWhat dysfunction sows!
A client missed the last week in her life because she went out of state to take care of a family matter that her primary family has been tolerating for about 50 years. What I recognized this week is how much damage can be done by not teaching our children about accountability and boundaries. An…
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