New Book Release
Do we tolerate bad sex?
Women are afraid to tell a man the truth about their experience of sex because they are afraid that it will send the man away. They are also afraid to tell a man the truth about their level of enjoyment of sex because they fear judgments about their level of experience. If a woman has…
Read MoreSome (sometimes x-rated) random thoughts about sex in relationships!
A woman fakes an orgasm to make her man feel proud of his performance. It is easier to lie about an orgasm and her satisfaction than it is to acquire enough energy to tell the truth and teach a man how to pleasure her unique body. So when would now be soon enough to expand…
Read MoreEssence of Bitchiness
Ever since I was a young woman, I have always said thank you when someone called me a bitch. It wasn’t an insult to me. Perhaps it was because I have always known on some level that the following definition of bitch is the truth. The True Definition of a Bitch When I stand up…
Read MoreEssence of Readiness
Are you really ready for a relationship? So often I hear, I want a boyfriend, I’m married but I’m not happy. I just got divorced and I don’t want to make the same mistake again. When will I find someone? It occurred to me recently that in order to be in a relationship that works,…
Read MoreEssence of History
How many times I have been asked how did I get into coaching and especially relationship coaching. It’s a cute story and significantly impacted my life perhaps it will yours also. I got divorced after 23 years of marriage. I left in 1989and started learning about relationships shortly after that. I took several relationship courses,…
Read More10 Steps to a Miraculous Satisfying Relationship
You must go out with a lot of frogs before you find your prince. Widen your expectations. Expand your horizons. Broaden your comfort zone. Don’t always limit yourself to the people you think are exactly what you want. You will be surprised who you are attracted to and will consider as a life mate when…
Read MoreEssence of Being in a Box
This has been an interesting month. My children bought a condo and moved out leaving me with the opportunity to restructure my house and my life. I had a contractor put a floor in my garage so that I could move my office out there. It was a struggle because he insisted on telling me…
Read MoreEssence of the Married Man
What is it about a married man that is so irresistible? It must be something because so many women fall for it. Just this week I encountered two women who have slipped into the trap of fatal attraction for a married man. It is dangerous territory and I do not recommend that anyone go there.…
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