Dating Outside Your Comfort Zone – Why?
We all have pre-conceived notions about who the opposite sex is for us. The people with whom we have had intimate relationships (not Sexual) form our pre-conceived notions. That can be good or bad depending on the quality of those relationships. As we experience rejection or break ups or disappointments, we close that perception even…
Read MoreThe Women of CLASS Calendar 2016
There is a great group of business women who have decided to make a calendar called “the women of class” it is fashioned in the style of the original calendar girls movies. It has evolved into a wonderful project for the promotion of women and their chosen causes. The mission of The Women of Class…
Read MoreNever Settle for Less Than What You Want!
Settling for less than what you want in any situation is a critical point in every relationship. A woman must assume her power in the relationship or the relationship will suffer. The turning point in every relationship is when the woman recognizes that unless this man produces at the level to which she holds…
Read MoreStart Coaching Now!
I have been asked how I got into relationship coaching. When I got divorced after 23 years of marriage, I took every relationship courses I could find. I learned that everything I had done in my marriage to make it work, had destroyed it. It wasn’t that I didn’t love my husband, I did. I…
Read MoreAre you looking for LOVE???????
Do you want an inspiring, passionate, intimate love relationship where you revel in being cherished by the man of your choice? At Getting What You Want, Inc. I serve women who have had their heart wounded in relationship and have fear about romance reentry or making another mistake to choose a wonderful loving partner who…
Read MoreInterview By Jessica Stern On Spotlite Radio
I was interviewed by Jessica Stern on Spotlite Radio about my Getting What You Want dating program. In the interview I review my 5 step C.L.A.S.S. system and I make an incredible offer with my book. You can listen to the interview through the link above. In this 8 minute interview, we were able to…
Read MoreA dissertation on men
My theory entirely is that men are always trying to please women and their biggest dilemma is that they don’t have a clue how to accomplish this because women think differently than men. I love men. They are these wonderfully creative, industrious, productive, sensitive, charming creatures who love to build things, solve problems, satisfy their…
Read MoreVulnerability is a fine trait to nurture.
Relationships do not thrive without attention. It takes two people who focus on each other’s needs. It takes two people who believe in each other and validate each other. It takes two people who want to love each other and who continually approve of each other which allow the vulnerability necessary to be honest about their…
Read MoreFeel Free to take Risks!
Remember the population of the world is more than 7 billion. The United States population as of yesterday is 321,609,407. If you want to get married, say so, even on the first date. That may scare away a few people but anyone who is interested in the same thing will stick around. You must be…
Read MoreThe Secrets of C.L.A.S.S.
What does Love with C.L.A.S.S. stand for? It is a system that I developed more than 20 years ago with my very first client. Step 1: C. for Clarity One of a woman’s jobs in relationship is to get clarity about what she wants. I know that this is contrary to what most women have…
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