Men are pretty unconscious about what makes them attractive. According to most women it is not their looks that make them attractive, it is who they are and how they produce in the world. So this married man goes to work and comes home and goes back to work the next day. At work there…

I guess I haven’t really explained how you get to be a really nice Bitch.  So here it is. Women are called bitch when they demand and when they get angry. The secret to being a really nice bitch is to know what you want and ask for it very nicely while you absolutely expect…

A client missed the last week in her life because she went out of state to take care of a family matter that her primary family has been tolerating for about 50 years. What I recognized  this week is how much damage can be done by not teaching our children about accountability and boundaries.  An…

What does it mean to be a gracious generous, grateful giver? Men are about production, a means to an end and very results oriented. Women are about appetite, the process, and very experience oriented. Generalized statements for sure, but lets analyze them. To be in a relationship that works you must be a giver. However,…

What happens when things go crazy in your relationship? Suddenly, probably not out of nowhere, you two are considering separating.  WOW! That was never in the plan. Neither of you is happy and you are not communicating well. What should you do to fix the problem? First thing is to recognize that there is a…

You are in a romantic relationship.  You have had an argument about something. You are angry and he just withdraws and pretends nothing has happened.  You are frustrated and want a reaction. You want him to apologize or maybe even just argue with you.  Do anything except withdraw.  So you continue to nag or act…

The first rule of finding a relationship is you must leave the house.  Sounds silly I suppose, but many of you wish for a relationship and do nothing to find one.  I promise you that sitting in your home in a security gated community, not one available man will knock on your door and announce…

Relationship coaching is life coaching. Life becomes extraordinary when we discover that being absolutely committed to taking care of ourselves, leads to abundance in every aspect of our lives.  It has been proven over and over again to me that when someone starts focusing on improving their life and getting what you want, your life…