Its never too late!
Any of you who think that its too late for love in your life, check out this article. I know you may say its for the money, but she is actually giving all her money away in order to marry him! Its very romantic. She rules over one of the world’s most breathtaking fortunes, but she…
Read MoreWHAT FROM YOUR PAST IS LIMITING YOU?
An interesting development surfaced this past week. I have been working with an EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) practitioner and focusing on an incident that occurred when I was about 9 years old. The most interesting part of the discovery was that it wasn’t at all what I believed to be true about the incident. When…
Read MoreHow does an affair start?
Men are pretty unconscious about what makes them attractive. According to most women it is not their looks that make them attractive, it is who they are and how they produce in the world. So this married man goes to work and comes home and goes back to work the next day. At work there…
Read MoreHow to be a really nice Bitch aka Appetite with Class
I guess I haven’t really explained how you get to be a really nice Bitch. So here it is. Women are called bitch when they demand and when they get angry. The secret to being a really nice bitch is to know what you want and ask for it very nicely while you absolutely expect…
Read MoreWhat’s up with Infidelity?
It seems to me that everyone looks at adultery as a cause of marital discord. From my perspective, there are only rare exceptions to the fact that adultery, cheating, or affairs are SYMPTOMS of long standing marital problems. The cause occurred possibly even before the marriage vows were uttered. Let’s go back to the beginning…
Read MoreWhat dysfunction sows!
A client missed the last week in her life because she went out of state to take care of a family matter that her primary family has been tolerating for about 50 years. What I recognized this week is how much damage can be done by not teaching our children about accountability and boundaries. An…
Read MoreGivers and Receivers
What does it mean to be a gracious generous, grateful giver? Men are about production, a means to an end and very results oriented. Women are about appetite, the process, and very experience oriented. Generalized statements for sure, but lets analyze them. To be in a relationship that works you must be a giver. However,…
Read MoreTelling the Truth!
Reality and truth travel a very narrow path. What is the truth? It actually is a perception. There is no proof in the universe that anything is a truth. Many things perceived as truths have been disavowed after more is discovered. So in terms of relationship, where is the line between truth and a lie,…
Read MoreTrouble in Paradise!
What happens when things go crazy in your relationship? Suddenly, probably not out of nowhere, you two are considering separating. WOW! That was never in the plan. Neither of you is happy and you are not communicating well. What should you do to fix the problem? First thing is to recognize that there is a…
Read MoreWhat to do when he shuts down?
You are in a romantic relationship. You have had an argument about something. You are angry and he just withdraws and pretends nothing has happened. You are frustrated and want a reaction. You want him to apologize or maybe even just argue with you. Do anything except withdraw. So you continue to nag or act…
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