Today is Memorial Day! A day to honor and acknowledge the men and women who have given a part or all of their life to protect and serve the people of this country by their military service. Its unique to this country to celebrate these people with barbecues, beer bashes, parades and beach outings.  I…

Watching Oprah end her 25 year reign as the Queen of daytime talk shows it occurred to me that though she makes a difference in the world, so do I.  It is all a matter of scale.  Her reach is global with international media and limitless funding behind her. My reach is much smaller.  …

Watching the news is depressing.  The incredible surge of tornados this year is creating havoc in the Midwest.  With just minutes warning the funnel cloud can change your world and take your life.  It can also take the life of anyone you love.  What this means is everyone would benefit from really learning to live…

  Overwhelm is something everyone faces at one time or another.  When things seem like they are insurmountable, what do you do?   Yesterday, I was at Bridesworld Expo talking with hundreds of brides to be, their mothers, sisters, bridesmaids and husbands to be.  It was very interesting to observe how everyone reacted to getting…

Let’s talk about men who cheat.  I don’t want to single out anyone, but the news is filled with talk about Arnold.  Without making excuses for him, I would like to point out that it was probably not his choice to cheat.  Let’s look at the reality of the situation.   The first and probably…

While I have been looking around the internet for other people who do what I do, I discovered that there are plenty of dating coaches and relationship coaches and match makers and dating sites.  There are psychologists and counselors and therapists.  There are celebrity coaches and matchmakers, millionaire specialists,trauma specialists and doctors.  There isn’t anyone…

How to be a Really Nice Bitch! Learn to Get What You Want in this 12 week course on boundaries, appetite and how to ask for what you want so anyone can hear you, produce for you and still love you! A course designed to give you clarity about what you really want and very specific…

Ever since I was a young woman, I have always said thank you when someone called me a bitch. It wasn’t an insult to me. Perhaps it was because I have always known on some level that the following definition of bitch is the truth. The True Definition of a Bitch When I stand up…

I was reading an article the other day and was distressed by a statement that 8 out of 10 marriages are affected by infidelity. This is a shocking statistic! What happens between the time the marriage vows are spoken and that first episode of cheating? It’s an assumption, of course, but I don’t think that…