Essence of Readiness

Are you really ready for a relationship? So often I hear, I want a boyfriend, I’m married but I’m not happy. I just got divorced and I don’t want to make the same mistake again. When will I find someone? It occurred to me recently that in order to be in a relationship that works,…

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Essence of History

How many times I have been asked how did I get into coaching and especially relationship coaching. It’s a cute story and significantly impacted my life perhaps it will yours also. I got divorced after 23 years of marriage. I left in 1989and started learning about relationships shortly after that. I took several relationship courses,…

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Essence of Cleanliness

Cleanliness is next to godliness. What a concept. Sometimes the amount of junk and recyclable stuff seems overwhelming. I am attempting to get my office moved to my garage and of course that means everything in the garage must be sorted through and disposed of in some way. It is truly amazing how much clutter…

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Essence of Readiness

essence of readiness

Are you really ready for a relationship? So often I hear, I want a boyfriend, I’m married but I’m not happy. I just got divorced and I don’t want to make the same mistake again. When will I find someone? It occurred to me recently that in order to be in a relationship that works,…

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Essence of History

essence of history

How many times I have been asked how did I get into coaching and especially relationship coaching. It’s a cute story and significantly impacted my life perhaps it will yours also. I got divorced after 23 years of marriage. I left in 1989and started learning about relationships shortly after that. I took several relationship courses,…

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Essence of Cleanliness

CLEAN RELATIONSHIP VENN DIAGRAM

Cleanliness is next to godliness. What a concept. Sometimes the amount of junk and recyclable stuff seems overwhelming. I am attempting to get my office moved to my garage and of course that means everything in the garage must be sorted through and disposed of in some way. It is truly amazing how much clutter…

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10 Steps to a Miraculous Satisfying Relationship

You must go out with a lot of frogs before you find your prince. Widen your expectations. Expand your horizons. Broaden your comfort zone. Don’t always limit yourself to the people you think are exactly what you want. You will be surprised who you are attracted to and will consider as a life mate when…

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Essence of Being in a Box

essence of being in a box

This has been an interesting month. My children bought a condo and moved out leaving me with the opportunity to restructure my house and my life. I had a contractor put a floor in my garage so that I could move my office out there. It was a struggle because he insisted on telling me…

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Essence of the Married Man

husband cheating

What is it about a married man that is so irresistible? It must be something because so many women fall for it. Just this week I encountered two women who have slipped into the trap of fatal attraction for a married man. It is dangerous territory and I do not recommend that anyone go there.…

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Essence of Awakenness

Essence of Awareness

Be conscious, aware, alert. Pay attention. Remember when you were in elementary school and the teacher used to say pay attention now, this is important? Well, this is important. Wake up! What does it take to wake up an adult? Many people go through life on automatic, doing life as it comes along. What kind…

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