Who Chooses?

Women do the choosing and women do the ending of relationships. Although, a woman knows more about what is happening in a relationship at any given time than a man will ever know. It is difficult for most women to accept these facts and many argue their validity. It is good to recognize the differences between men and women.

Women express their emotions while men are taught from young ages to suppress them.
Men tend to be much more linear in their thinking and actions. While women are circular, leaning more towards experiences than results. Women are relationship oriented while men are results oriented. This has been proven many times in activities such as family, office operations and sales.

Women are credited with innate intuitiveness and multi-tasking, while men are credited with logic and single focus. Of course everyone has all of these talents it is simply a matter of degrees. How these ideas relate to relationship is the theory that supports my five step process (Love with C.L.A.S.S.) that guarantees participants a relationship if they follow the steps faithfully.

The theory is supported by using the sex act as a metaphor for relationship.
Men must produce. Women must receive in order to accomplish the sex act.
I believe that in following through on this metaphor, “it is the woman’s job to express her appetite” and have it “be” more than the man thinks he can produce, and to believe in his ability to produce that result until he does it. This is where a man gets to express his dreams, and his woman can encompass them into her appetite. Their relationship is the catalyst for breathing life into their dreams. “It is the man’s job to produce results.”
Finally, it is the woman’s responsibility to claim her power in the relationship and to express her appetite to her man so that he can better provide for her and their family.

Next: the explanation of Love with C.L.A.S.S.